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UK Brothel Revenue
In the UK brothel owners can make up to £1 million per annum, with women being sold for around £8,000 - over 42 times the average salary in the UK. What's your salary?...
While you were working for a living...
The vast amounts made in the global prostitution industry goes directly into the hands of pimps, traffickers and brothel owners....
The UK Sex Industry
In 2005, the UK sex industry was worth an estimated £1 billion. Since then the growth has been exponential....
Prostitutes on Crack
British Home Office research found that over 90% of street prostitutes take heroin or crack cocaine....
Global Pornography Revenue
In 2006, worldwide pornography revenue was $97.06 billion. Of that, approximately $13 billion was in the United States....
Not $1. Not $10. But $3,075. Every second.
Every second, $3,075.64 is being spent on pornography, and every 39 minutes, a new pornographic video is made in the United States....
Internet Pornography
There are 4.2 million pornographic websites, 420 million pornographic web pages, and 68 million daily pornographic search engine requests....
A World Fit For Children?
According to the Internet Filter Review (2006), the file-sharing network Gnutella has 116,000 daily "child pornography" requests....
Child Porn: A Booming Business
Child pornography is one of the fastest growing businesses online. Between 2004 and 2006 the number of child abuse domains increased 200%....
Child Porn & Child Abuse
In a study of arrested child pornography possessors, 40% had both sexually victimized children and were in possession of child pornography....
Global Child Porn Revenue
By 2005, child pornography had become a $3 billion annual global industry. Since then its growth has continued to be exponential....
Mobile Porn Revenue
In 2005, worldwide revenue from mobile phone pornography rose to $1 billion and was expected to increase by at least three times that number within a few years. Where are we now?
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1 Million Children Per Year
UNICEF reports that across the world, there are over one million children entering the sex trade every year, and some 30 million children have lost their childhood through sexual exploitation over the past 30 years.
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How Prostitutes Die
In a US study of almost 2,000 prostitutes followed over a 30-year period, by far the most common causes of death were homicide, suicide, drug and alcohol related problems, HIV infection and accidents - in that order.
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Child Prostitutes
According to the US Department of Justice, studies indicate that child prostitutes 'serve' between two and thirty 'clients' per week. That's 100 to 1500 'clients' per year, per child.
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Human Trafficking
Every year, upwards of $19 billion is generated on the street from illegal human trafficking. Who gets this money and what do they do with it?
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'Adult'-Film Industry
The 'adult'-film industry is bigger than ever. In 2003 it was making around 6,000 movies a year and grossing more than $4 billion - roughly as much as the US National Football League....

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Dressed to Kill - Leaflet

Dressed to Kill Plunging necklines, sexy mini-skirts, hot pants, lycra-loaded vests, semi-transparent ultra-tight jeans that dissolve in sunshine. Ok, we made that last one up. But you get the picture. When it comes to fashion for us girls, year in year out, it's mainly about...sex. Sex, sex and...err...more sex. At the risk of being disrespectfully counter-cultural, here's what I think...

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Plunging necklines, sexy mini-skirts, hot pants, lycra-loaded vests, semi-transparent ultra-tight jeans that dissolve in sunshine. Ok, we made that last one up. But you get the picture. When it comes to fashion for us girls, year in year out, it's mainly about...sex. Sex, sex and...err...more sex.

At the risk of being disrespectfully counter-cultural, here's what I think: trying to look as super-sexy as possible every hour of the day and night might seem appealing, but it ain’t the way to go.

Sure, we’re going to turn a few guys’ heads. But which guys? The guys who are going to treat us with respect, consideration, thoughtfulness, sensitivity - i.e. real love - as well as like us for our sexual attractiveness and sensual beauty, or the guys who are going to see us primarily as objects for sexual kicks (and use "consideration", "respect" etc. insofar as it gets them those kicks)? You know the story.

The truth is that drawing immediate attention to those areas of your body which are the focus in sexual intimacy is probably going to encourage guys who look at you to think about sex. Surprisingly. If you want a guy to look at you and see you as potentially his best and most intimate life-long friend with whom he enjoys sex (i.e. "wife"), then you need a better strategy. It’s not because these areas of the body are “bad”; it’s because they’re so good and so alluring. Drawing attention to them has its place - inside the certainty and intimacy of married love - but draw the attention too soon and you risk tempting guys to think of you in “sex first, friendship second (or never)” terms instead of the other way round. In other words, you risk setting yourself up to be used.

Deciding not to wear hot pants etc. doesn’t mean I have to walk around in a big sack; I can be attractive without being provocative. It’s about balance, and when I live the balance I show that I want real love. And I give it a real chance.

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